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How to address sexual addictions - masturbation (faster EFT)
January 31, 2012
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Any tips/suggestions on how to address sexual addictions such as masturbation through EFT?

December 14, 2012
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Errrm, whats wrong with masturbation?

January 10, 2013
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Adress all memories with sexual experiences during your life.

Do you have negative experiences with sexuality. Are there sexual trauma's?

What ideas of sexuality run through your family?

How do you know you are addicted?

How do you feel about yourself needing sexual activity? What situations/emotions trigger sexual needs?

How do you feel about being a sexual being? Adress the emotions you feel about masturbating or needing sex. Do you feel bad, ashamed or whatever, aim at that.

If you answer certain questions for yourself and make a list, you already have a lot to tap on!

Good luck.

 

Carla

 

January 11, 2013
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mypower said:

Errrm, whats wrong with masturbation?

There's nothing wrong with it. It only becomes a problem when one becomes a slave to it. But one thing of interest to me is the fact that by not ejaculating for long periods, body accumulates tons of energy. If this energy is not wasted in ejaculation, it is channeled throughout the body, and used for other purposes. It feels really powerful. I say this based only on anecdotal evidence, and limited personal experience. 

I came across this website a while back: http://yourbrainonporn.com/

Also, here are numerous reports of people who quit mastrubation and porn for various lengths of time. These reports are very fascinating to me, and I think you will agree: http://yourbrainonporn.com/rebooting-accounts

It opened me up to tons of new information. I was only able to last 1 month without masturbating. It was very tough, and the horniness killed me (but I didn't know about FasterEFT back then); but the benefits were truly remarkable. I felt like my whole being was operating on higher frequency, and I really felt magnificent. Currently, I'm back on my pattern of porn/masturbation addiction, but it is getting weaker and weaker as I am clearing out random past negative experiences with FEFT. I still often feel the urge, but lately, its been severely diminishing.

I intend to quit masturbation very soon, and give it another try. I wish to not masturbate for several months, and see what changes it brings. It will probably be far easier this time due to the aid of FEFT. The results should be interesting.

 

R2, Carla has some great advice up there. Really consider the answers to the questions she has listed above. They are very helpful pointers imo. I am on a similar path as you as well R2, so cheers! Thank you Carla for sharing the list of questions<3 

Another critical thing I think is to "tap in the heat of the moment" (as Robert says) right when the "trance" of horniness begins to take over. Catch it while it is just beginning, and while the horny feeling is still small. That would make the task easier imo. I've been slacking on it, but the time will soon comeSmile

 

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January 13, 2013
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The real thing is the inability to deal with something's going on in your life currently. 

To avoid what's going on inside you use sex. Go to what you do inside, before you do sex.

Underneath the problem with sex is something else, and you use sex to avoid it.

What happens if you don't do sex? How do you know it is there? Is it a feeling, sensation, picture

whatever it is tap on that. Release the emotional charge of that thing you don't want.

Peace

Carla

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